We have another thing to figure out for this here wedding that we're having in TWENTY THREE DAYS.
That's not many days, friends. insert confetti emoji here
It's about the reception. Right now, our schedule is as follows:
5pm cocktails, 5:30 ceremony, 6 - 9 reception. They're all in the same place so there won't be any walking/transport time, and the ceremony will be about 20 minutes long - less if our officiant talks quickly.
So, besides a very slight lag, if folks get there at 5 we're looking at 4 hours of an open bar.
And now people are telling us that they HATED SO MUCH OMG when their receptions were over and that we should totally go until 10pm so that we don't HATE IT SO MUCH OMG.
So you know I need to know what you think! This is just like those coasters. I have too much time left (not really, but you know), and I'm rethinking decisions that were JUST FINE a few months ago.
So, you know I need your help. Whatcha think? Extend? Leave as is? Wait until the day of and make a game-time decision? If cost WEREN'T a factor (it might be, still waiting to hear on that one), what would you do, as a bride/groom, family member, or guest? We're looking for any perspectives that aren't hateful.
No one likes hateful perspectives, do they?
Thank you for telling me what to do. I need a manager.
As you were.
Jay's comedy friend says
I agree with the above. Extend even if it means the open bar portion ends at 9pm. The reception flies by.
Dan Snider says
I'm with Ms. Bees above. Our reception was quite long, I think 6-11. I believe that the place stayed open until midnight as cash bar so people could continue the party. And yes, warp speed happens at your own reception. I was drinking for like 6 straight hours and didn't even catch a buzz.
Kalyn says
I wish I had extra time at my reception. Can you extend the time but switch to cash bar at a certain time?
ktisthatbees says
You are going to want that extra hour. I promise, you won't regret it. SERIOUSLY. Time moves at some insane warp speed at your own wedding, those 3 hours will feel like 30 minutes.