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Best Spaghetti Meat Sauce Recipe

Last Updated: Sep 2023 by Lindsay This post may contain affiliate links to products I use and enjoy. 13 Comments

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5 from 10 ratings

My favorite slow cooked Sunday sauce recipe! This is a version of Sam the Cooking Guy's Bolognese recipe featuring tons of veggies, beef, and a few special ingredients. The recipe is super simple and simmers for a long time to develop a perfect Sunday gravy flavor and OMG the house smell. Best ever.

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Hello and hi, let's finish this year with an uber bang. I've been talking with a lot of people recently about things that I make that never change, staples that I think are so handy for everyone to be able to make all the time. A good salad dressing, one kind of bread, that sort of thing.

This easy Bolognese sauce is a new-to-me recipe that I've been working on for a few months. I watched Sam the Cooking Guy make this Bolognese on YouTube, and I loved the method, ingredients, all of it. The key to the flavor in this Bolognese is that we use stock, wine, and milk to flavor and enrich the sauce so that it's super hearty without being creamy by the end.

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The recipe itself is really simple but with a few tricks that make the resulting Sunday sauce so, so worth it. I actually usually make this on Sundays to allow time for the sauce to really simmer. This isn't a quick and easy meat sauce for pasta; this is a let-it-simmer, do-some-laundry, read-your-book, stir-every-once-in-awhile labor of love that is definitely easy even though it takes some time make.

Best Spaghetti Meat Sauce Recipe

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To start! Let's grab ingredients. The veggies here get grated instead of chopped which results in a smoother spaghetti sauce at the end with tons of veggie flavor and some nutrition. I use a box grater to grate onion, garlic, and celery but you could also use a food processor if you'd like.

spaghetti alla bolognese ingredients

Then we have ground beef, white wine (milder flavor than red, which I love here), beef broth, canned tomatoes (forgot them, ignore me, sorry), tomato paste, garlic, tomato paste, and milk. Whole milk FOR SURE or even half and half gives the richest flavor to this slow-cooked Bolognese.

We start with the veggies. The key for this entire meat sauce recipe is that we cook a few ingredients at a time then add more. That way each ingredient develops lots of flavor and everything is nice and saucy and married together at the end.

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Cook the veggies in a drizzle of oil for about 10 minutes over medium-low heat with a sprinkle of salt, stirring as you go. The veggies should soften and release some liquid but not brown very much at all - adjust the heat as needed based on your stove.

I make this sauce in my favorite Staub braiser, but any big pot works great! This size of pan is perfect for this recipe; I use a Dutch oven when I make a double batch.

When the veggies are soft, add the ground beef with another sprinkle of salt and cook until nicely browned and crispy in some places, breaking up the beef with a spoon as you go.

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When the beef is cooked through, add minced garlic and tomato paste to the pan. Again, stir to coat everything with the tomato paste and let it sizzle just a bit - 2 minutes or so for the garlic to become fragrant but not brown.

easy bolognese sauce recipe

Once the meat and veggies are in the skillet, we add liquids to the Bolognese, also in stages. First, the wine goes in. Scrape the bottom of the pan to release any bits, and let the wine cook and reduce until it is nearly all gone. Then, add the canned tomatoes, beef broth, and Balsamic glaze to the skillet with another big sprinkle of salt.

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At this point we have our first big simmer time - one hour or up to two hours depending on how long you want to stretch this part. The idea is to have the mixture barely bubbling but not boiling. Stir every 20 minutes or so to be sure the meat sauce doesn't stick to the bottom of the pan.

When almost all of the beef stock and tomato juice has cooked down, we add the milk and simmer one more time. Each time you add more liquid (after the wine, after the stock/tomatoes), the sauce should look pretty dry, and then we add more liquid to wake it back up.

sam the cooking guy bolognese recipe

Milk goes in, and this is our final simmer. The sauce will look creamy at first, but after 30-45 minutes the milk will cook into the sauce and thicken and the whole thing is just so unctuous, it's just ridiculous.

best spaghetti meat sauce recipe

During the milk simmering period, taste the sauce when you stir it (again, every 20 minutes or so) and add pinches of salt to your preference. We started this sauce with lots of meat and veggies, so I'd guess you'll need 1 ½ teaspoons of kosher salt at least for this recipe, and likely a few more pinches right at the end.

Now, when the sauce has cooked down with the milk it can be turned off to cool for meal prep spaghetti sauce, or you can use the milk simmering period to cook some pasta. Whenever you cook pasta, save a cup or so of the salted cooking water right before you drain the pasta to loosen the sauce up, especially if you make the sauce in advance.

The starchy pasta water and even a few more splashes of milk bring the sauce back to life.

best spaghetti meat sauce recipe

Homemade Meat Sauce

I mean, seriously.

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The keys here are this: The white wine adds tang and flavor without being a Red Wine Sauce, if you know what I mean. If you don't cook with wine skip this step and add ½ cup more beef stock or more cooking water at the end, no worries.

spaghetti alla bolognese

The Balsamic glaze (or 1 tablespoon balsamic vin 2 teaspoons sugar) adds a barely-there flavor and sweetness to contrast the tangy tomatoes. The beef and milk make everything so flavorful without any weird ingredients.

I love this with any kind of noodles, but penne Bolognese is a particular favorite of ours for a cozy dinner on the couch. When I serve, I toss enough of the sauce with cooked pasta to just barely coat it, then add more sauce and Parmesan cheese on top.

Is this your New Year's Eve in Quarantine Dinner Plan? It definitely, definitely could be.

penne bolognese easy

Enjoy this so much! It's so enjoyable to make and such a treat.

Recipe

white bowl with penne and meat sauce over a white napkin.

Best Spaghetti Meat Sauce Recipe

Lindsay Howerton-Hastings
How to make the best spaghetti meat sauce! My favorite recipe starts with tons of veggies and simmers for a few hours. Besides time, though, this recipe is simple and foolproof. I love to make a double batch and freeze half for a gift to myself for later!
5 from 10 ratings
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Prep Time 15 minutes mins
Cook Time 2 hours hrs

Equipment

  • Box Grater
  • Chef Knife
  • My Favorite Staub

Ingredients
  

  • ½ large onion
  • 1 large carrot
  • 1 stalk celery
  • 1 ½ pounds ground beef any kind you like
  • 3 cloves garlic minced
  • ⅓ cup tomato paste
  • 1 cup dry white wine pinot grigio or similar
  • 28 ounces canned crushed tomatoes
  • 2 cups beef stock
  • 2 tablespoons balsamic glaze
  • 1 cup whole milk
  • kosher salt
  • cooked pasta and parmesan cheese for serving

Instructions
 

  • Using a box grater, grate the onion, carrot, and celery. Preheat a large pot or pan to medium-low heat with a drizzle of oil.
  • Add the veggies to the pan and sauté for 5-10 minutes with a sprinkle of salt until very soft and slightly dark at the edges.
  • Add the beef with another sprinkle of salt and cook until browned and slightly crispy, breaking up with a spoon as you go.
  • Add the tomato paste and garlic and stir to combine for 2 minutes.
  • Add the wine and stir to remove any stuck bits from the bottom of the pan. Let the wine reduce all the way, about 5 minutes.
  • Add the tomatoes, beef stock, and balsamic glaze. Stir to combine and add a few more pinches of salt. Adjust the heat as needed so the mixture is simmering but not boiling. Let the sauce simmer for 1-2 hours, stirring every 20 minutes (stir all the way to the bottom of the pan so the sauce doesn't stick).
  • When the beef stock and tomato juices are mostly reduced (go with the sauce rather than the clock), add the milk and continue to stir for 30-45 minutes more, stirring every once in awhile. During this time, taste and add more salt to your preference, probably about 2 teaspoons kosher salt from start to finish. This amount will depend on your ingredients, but the sauce should be very flavorful at the end.
  • To serve right away, cook pasta during the milk simmering period. I toss a bit of pasta cooking water with the sauce. To serve, I toss the pasta with about ⅓ of the sauce then top with extra sauce and Parmesan cheese.
  • To save for later, let the homemade Bolognese cool to room temperature, then freeze or keep in the fridge until ready to serve.

Notes

Inspired by this video from Sam the Cooking Guy.
If you prefer to not cook with wine, you can omit the wine and add ½ cup more stock OR extra cooking water right before serving to get a meat sauce consistency you'd like.
For meal prep, I often double this recipe and freeze half for later.
If you make the sauce in advance, add a few more splashes of milk and some pasta cooking water right before serving. Taste and add more salt if needed; often salt flavor goes away after freezing.
I love chunky crushed tomatoes in this recipe, but whole tomatoes work perfectly as well. Just crush them with your hand before dumping into the sauce.
Tried this recipe?Let me know how it was!

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  1. Monica says

    January 13, 2024 at 9:33 am

    5 stars
    Won’t the milk curdle?

    Reply
    • Lindsay says

      January 14, 2024 at 10:49 am

      Nope! It cooks down nicely into the sauce and adds a lovely richness - no curdling.

      Reply
  2. Styne McFadden says

    February 27, 2022 at 1:18 pm

    5 stars
    This is absolutely delicious. Everyone loves it. The flavors are deep and the milk cuts through the acidity of the tomatoes. It adds a fullness to the sauce, if that makes sense.

    Note: if you're doubling the recipe, allow for extra time for everything. It took forever for the wine and sauce to reduce. You're working with twice as much of everything.

    Your eyes will tell you when to move on to the next step.

    Reply
    • Lindsay says

      February 28, 2022 at 2:25 pm

      Thank you so much! Excellent tip; I try to add times for some things but totally agree that watching the dish is the best way to know when it's time for the next addition!

      Reply
  3. Toni says

    November 16, 2021 at 1:11 pm

    5 stars
    This is so amazing! My family loved it.

    Reply
  4. nancy says

    November 15, 2021 at 4:08 pm

    5 stars
    i'm always looking for delish spaghetti meat sauce recipes that is kid friendly. This one was a real hit wtih DD!

    Reply
  5. Swathi says

    November 15, 2021 at 3:25 pm

    5 stars
    This spaghetti with meat sauce sounds really yum.

    Reply
  6. Kristina says

    November 15, 2021 at 1:12 pm

    5 stars
    My family loves this easy spaghetti sauce. It's one of our favorites.

    Reply
  7. Audrey says

    November 15, 2021 at 12:55 pm

    5 stars
    LOVED this recipe! So tasty.

    Reply
  8. Angela says

    November 15, 2021 at 12:37 pm

    5 stars
    This is such a great meat sauce recipe.

    Reply
  9. Amanda Dixon says

    November 15, 2021 at 12:14 pm

    5 stars
    This is such a great meat sauce! It's so flavorful and the perfect addition to any pasta dish.

    Reply
  10. Lanny says

    May 21, 2021 at 3:43 pm

    I've never heard of adding milk to a spaghetti sauce. To make it "creamier"?

    Reply
    • Lindsay says

      May 24, 2021 at 2:28 pm

      It's fairly common in most bolognese recipes! It doesn't necessarily add creaminess like a cream would right at the end. Instead, it contributes to overall richness and deepens the flavor since we cook it almost all the way out. It's REALLY good. I hope you like it if you try it!

      Reply
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Hi! I'm Lindsay. I'm a maternal mental health therapist, a recipe developer, food writer, and taker of all kinds of pictures. Thank you so much for being here! This blog is about how to take care of yourself and your people without taking anything too seriously.

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